Relationship- The "Ship" that would Sink

The Top 10 Reasons Responsible for Making the Ship Sink:

1. Anticipations: The first thing, if you had ever fallen in love was anticipation. You expect a lot more than required from your partner. Meaning, you want your partner to love you the most. And what more, you wish your love story were the greatest amongst your mates and rest of the world. Sometimes EXPECTATIONS may lead to problems. If discrepancy in that balance sheet is perceived, we start to back away from the relationship.
2. Candidness: Being FRANK is the most difficult activity to do on this earth. However, i don't have any idea about the other planets(jokes apart :p). You would be in a dilemma whether to tell or not. If u don't,  you would hurt your self respect, If u do,  you would hurt your partner. But according to the survey made, people who are totally frank are not stable in their relationships respectively. Apparently, one should not be a total FRANKER.
3. Bantering: Everything happens while being in a relationship. You tease your partner and sometimes they tease you. Overdoing always makes you land in trouble. Henceforth, over-teasing or over-KIDDING with your partner also lands you in trouble.  
4. Cussing: How often do you go mad at your partner? And if it were 'often', get ready, you are gonna get dumped soon. Moreover, while involving in a fight with your partner, OBSCENE could also be the reason for the isolation.
5. Possessiveness: Now don't say you are not possessive. Some feel like owning a property. And that property is not to be seen or occupied by anyone but him. People like their partners being possessive but to certain limits. Not so possessive so as to go mad at them even if they talk to other people. That makes you a BADDIE.
6. Intervention: We have seen many movies where-in a stranger enters the picture frame, the actress notices him, and the hero feels bad about that. Such kinda situations also happen in our real lives too i.e., the INTERFERENCE of the third party. At that instance, have faith in yourself, your partner and your love. If you have assurance on your love, then you don't have to panic. And if she still leaves you, don't worry she was never meant for u. Thank her for the experience she has given you and MOVE ON!!
7. An Envious Lover: Did you ever feel tough when your girl friend moved liberally with a person other than you?  If yes, then you are said to be JEALOUS of that person. Everybody(mostly) has that characteristic in them but control themselves and try to be positive. If excess of that feeling is elicited, you are gonna get in trouble soon.
8. Spats and Disputes: Remember the quote "drops of water make an ocean"? The same thing happens here. Initially both of u fight for a silly reason, being in a relationship though. Later, pretend to be forgotten but aint. Your so called relationship is envenomed now. It may spread throughout and may be responsible for destroying the love. Group of small spats make one single BIG DISPUTE.
9. Growth Of Shushes and Egos: This is the problem faced by many. Whenever you fight with your partner, you don't talk to him for a certain period of time. Further, you wait for him/her to come to you. You are never interested in taking the initiative. You feel that your EGO would get hurt if u speak first. That is so wrong. You would keep waiting then, forever.
10. Game Over: "Enough is enough" is all what you feel when you get tired of your partner due to his/her actions.When you decide to end a relationship nothing seems to come in between you and your relationship. You forget everything, all good things you have done in the past. Finally, you are through with this part of your life. Done and CEASED now.

            Never try to end a relationship, instead search your heart you might find a good reason based on which problems can be worked out.Find reasons not to get isolated but to Love. Always BE POSITIVE and never forget to "LOVE & SMILE ♥ :)"